Thursday, Jan. 13, 2005 - 9:25 a.m.
I haven't listened to Barry Manilow in over a week. I am going through withdraws. I am trying to wean myself from him because I am losing touch with what is cool these days. As if I ever had a grip on what was cool.
In typing that first sentence I had about 15 fucking pop-ups going on. Online Casino???? Tickle matchmaking??? Is your computer safe??? Evidently fucking not! I hate pop-ups and I want to shoot my monitor. I would but there is a few flaws. I am not in possession of a gun of any sort, it isn't MY computer it is my bosses, and a interesting pop-up might come along. Okay, that third one will NEVER happen.
So I was talking to my buddy Tammy* (I am changing names) last night because I had my status saying something like people are shit or something pretty close to that. (I was mad at one person who will not be named to protect the guilty.) And she said YES MEN ARE SHIT. Now let me clarify, I didn't say men were shit, but I could tell she was pissed off about something so I asked her what was up. Well she was talking to this guy in chat and they planned to meet up and he got ill and couldn't. Later that night he was feeling okay and they decided to go ahead and meet. These 2 have been talking for ages and she really liked this guy. (Just for the record I think (thought) this guy was pretty decent too.) But he was a no show. But then he goes on to tell her that he didn't know she thought that is was a "let's get together" type deal. He just "wanted to be friends" (KISS OF FUCKING DEATH!) And then he told her he met someone the previous weekend and they were a couple. (I hope I got that whole story right and if I didn't too damn bad!)
I would like to know WTF was he thinking? I understand men say shit to A.) Not hurt a girl's feelings B.) Make life easier for them C.) They have retard moments and don't think before they speak. But not saying anything just makes it HARDER for us.
I am not a huge fan of chat dating because of a couple things that have happened to me. I won't ever date a chatter ever again. But that doesn't mean I think it can't work. It just won't work for me. I will say though that the chances for a healthy relationship coming from a chat room are SLIM! Too many people in your business and too many people in your business means too much drama.
It is like that old say misery loves company. If chatters aren't happy then they don't want you happy and will try and mess up what they think they should have. (Ahhh the web of chat)
I>But I thought I would vent a little there for Tammy.
I am so glad I have this journal to grandstand and act like I am better then people. And if you don't like it, get your own! Hahahahaha <--- Evil laughter!
